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Sawyer after his "race"

Before the race-excited to run

Could not for the life of me get a good picture of both kids...

My handsome Dutch boy

Baby Ro in the parade

Baby parade

Best Friends

Outside hanging out in the shade

Same old excuse, different blog post. Life is busy- but in the best of ways! We had a streak of great weather and literally spent every single second that we could outside. It was even warm enough to play in the baby pool 2 days this week- which Sawyer and I BOTH loved. I got a new comfy lawn chair for mothers day, and while he splashed and swam- I got to lay out. And I actually got some sun.

Since I last blogged in march-oops- I have gone back to work. Still just 2 days a week thank goodness. I don't think I could be gone more than that. I of course dreaded having to leave Rowan, but just like when I went back after having Sawyer, thinking about it was much worse that actually doing it. I liked seeing all my friends again, getting out of the house, and contributing to our family. Plus Sawyer loves getting to go to nana's or TT's house again while I work. Rowan was mad and didnt take a bottle the first day I was gone until about 10 hours after I had left, luckily zach was home with the boys my first day back and now Ro takes a bottle just fine if Im gone.

We had a wonderful Easter- it was on my birthday this year so we celebrated both! I like to forget that I got another year old- Im still 22 in my mind :) I had a wonderful day with my family. I got furniture for our deck for my birthday and I LOVE it- we eat dinner on the deck every single night that the weather is decent. Sawyer adores getting to eat outside. Sawyer got to have three, yes, three easter egg hunts and he loved every second of it. "Eggs are hiding everywhere!" he told me when he woke up on easter morning.

We also celebrated Tulip Time- Sawyer adored the parade. Its been a whole week and I dont think a day has gone by that he hasn't woken up and asked me if we can go to the parade. There was a float that looked like and ice cream truck and he named it "mack" like the truck from Cars, and he asks me about Mack every.single.day.

He also ran in the kids klompen classic- a 3 block kids race. He LOVED it, and he didnt get tired or slow down. He ran and yelled "im racing!" He tells me that he won. But he also told me he ran fast because he wanted a popsicle- and Im pretty sure he had no idea he would get a popsicle at the end.

Rowan actually liked the evening parade at Tulip Time. The afternoon parade fell right during his usual big nap time- so he wasnt really a fan of that at all, but the lights of the night parade made him smile.

Both boys are growing up so fast. Sawyer talks up a storm and he is hilarious. He makes me laugh on a daily basis. He is certainly not a baby anymore. He is a full blown little boy now.

Rowan is such a sweet baby. He is in that rolly baby stage. He has rolled over from his tummy a few times, but more often he just spins his whole body around and will end up facing the complete opposite direction from where he started.

Sawyer still likes having a brother. I told him once- Rowan is going to grow up and be your best friend, you guys will have so much fun! And sawyer asked "will he play cars with me?"

Yep! I said, "and lots of other stuff too!"

Sawyer got so excited "I want him to grow up right now and play soccer with me!"

March On

Well, I guess its been awhile- I've been enjoying my boys and my time at home. I would say things are now back to "the new normal" around here. Pretty much the same as before Rowan arrived- execpt that now I tote two kids out and about with me to playdates. Truthfully I can't just sit at home everyday or I get stir crazy and so does Sawyer. We have been out and about and we really enjoyed the warm weather here last week. We went to the park with granny and also with friends and played outside in the yard a lot which was wonderful! We are getting excited to start our garden. I think each year we buy more seeds than the previous year! Can't wait! We also bought some new fruit trees to plant this year- something we have been meaning/wanting to do since we moved in! Two apple trees, two pear trees, a peach tree and a plum tree- they are yearlings so we wont get fruit for at least 3 years but 3 years goes by so fast! And at the rate that Sawyer eats fruit now we are going to need them in 3 years. I realized recently that my family eats 12+ pounds of fresh fruit every week! Yep, you read that right, shocked me too! But I make everyone each fruit at each meal- healthy and delicious, can't beat that! Its exciting to think that we can grow our own.

Sawyer finally had his 2 year Dr. appointment and as always, he is a big boy. Dr. W was pleased with how well he talks also. Full blow sentences and conversations now, and the kid is a jabber box- I dont think he stops talking! And he also makes up new stories everyday to tell me- ussually involving himself, owls, eagles and Cooper dog. Lately an owl takes him away and cooks him/me/cooper into macaroni. And he is into telling jokes- apparently macaroni and poop are the two funniest things when you are two because all of his jokes revolve around one or the other. He is quite creative. And he seems to like being a big brother- he likes to touch Rowan's hair and tonight he told me- Rowan has small hands mom, but I have big hands! And he asks for Rowan to do things with him, such as Baby Rowan take a bath with me, Baby Rowan play cars with me, ect

Rowan had his 2 month Dr. appointment and was also a big boy- apparently I grow large children. He was 14lbs 12oz and 24.75 inches. 90% for both height and weight. I now have 50lbs of children- and somehow manage to still lug them both around. He is into 3-6 month clothes already but he can still wear 0-3 pants since he still has a skinny waist for now. Rowan so far has been a pretty easy baby. Right after he came home he caught some nasty boogery gunk from Sawyer and was a bit fussy until that was gone- but now he really just goes with the flow and spends a majority of the day sleeping on me in the baby carrier while Sawyer goes to playdates with his friends ect. He smiles a lot now and is one the verge of giving us a big belly laugh, he just does little "ha ha's" as of now. He loves to watch everything that Sawyer does- if Sawyer is around Rowan's eyes are glued on him. This makes for easy tummy time which is awesome. Everyday he seems more laidback and happy. I think for me going from 1 kid to 2 has been less of a transition than going from 0 to 1. It just seems like he has been here all along.

Welcome Rowan

Rowan Zachery Van Wyk is here! He made his way into the world on January 20, 2011- which was his ultrasound due date, and the day that I said he would be born :) If you don't like birth stories- you better stop reading now. Here is how Rowan made his debut.

On Wednesday the 19th Sawyer had a bad croup attack and we ended up taking him in to the ER where I work at 5 am. He came into our room with dusky blue lips and fingernails, and he was shaking and wouldn't open his eyes. He was fine, got some steroids, got to visit with Dr. D at 5 am :) but there were about 10 scary minutes at home before we took him out in the cold car and he started to get better- I had contractions pretty much the whole time- nothing makes me nervous ussually but I love my kids and it was a bit scary. We got home at 7am and I noticed I had lost my mucus plug- no big deal, you can lose it and not go into labor for weeks, but with Sawyer I lost it when I was IN labor. Had an OB appointment at 10 am- had Dr. W strip my membranes and I told him "tomorrow is the day I guessed he will come, does that work well for you?" And we had a good laugh and I went home and spent the day with playing with Sawyer, cooking, cleaning, ect. That evening I noticed that I was having some really really mild contractions, and they felt different than my usual braxton hicks contractions- because they actually didnt hurt at all and sometimes my BH did hurt a bit. I laughed and told Zach "well tomorrow is my guess and I think I could be trying to go into labor!" Went to bed and slept well most of the night, except waking up to go to the bathroom and check on Sawyer a lot. At 430 am when I was going to the bathroom I noticed I was having contractions. Was up again at 530 and still having contractions. Sawyer woke up early at 630 and came to our bed to cuddle and I announced to him and Zach, I think we get our baby brother today! Horray! Everyone was excited- Zach decided he would go in and get some orders dropped off for the week if today was going to be the day- so he didnt have to worry about doing it after baby came. He told me to get up and time a few contractions before he left. Got up at 7am and timed my first set of contractions and they were about 5 minutes apart, and once I was up and about, they hurt! I told him to go to work but to make it quick because this wasn't going to take 26 hours like it had with Sawyer, I could tell! I got up and got ready and got Sawyer ready and was by 830 when he got home I was breathing through contractions every 3-4 minutes. Sawyer went to Zach's parents house and I decided I would sit down and see how far apart my contractions were if I relaxed a bit- they were still 3-5 minutes apart and painful. We decided to go to OB at about 930 or 10am- I wanted to make sure I didn't get to far along before I could get my epidural because with Sawyer I transitioned without it and it HURT and I had noticed I was already having bloody show at home. Got to OB around 10ish and was 5cm dilated and contracting every 3-5 minutes with strong contractions. Labored there, did admission stuff, and waited for Dr. W. Zach rubbed my shoulders and we played monopoly on the ipod to try to distract me from the pain. Dr. W. came around 1130ish and I was 6cm. He said to go ahead and get my epidural and he would be back to break my water. Got my epidural from one of my best friend's husband's and he did an awesome job. He gave me a half dose rate because I told him I wanted to be able to feel my contractions still- it was wonderful. I could move my legs and I could still feel every contractions but the pain wasnt bad, they just felt like a LOT of pressure. Once I was feeling good Zach went to get lunch- it was about noon. Dr. W came and broke my water while he was gone, and when Zach came back upstairs with food Dr. W. joked that if Zach got to eat, he wanted to also. I was feeling amazing so I told him to go enjoy his lunch! A few friend from work came down to see me and we chatted a while. Immediatly after my water was broken i could tell my contractions were really strong and were coming one after the other. at about 1230 dr. w came back from lunch and checked me and declared i was complete and ready to push "he's right there!" our nurses were pretty suprised how quickly i had progressed. they got all the baby equipment in the room and at 1247 i started pushing. I pushed about 10ish times and 21 minutes later at 108 Rowan Zachery Van Wyk arrived. Everyone was shocked at how big he was (although i thought he seemed so small compared to almost 2 year old Sawyer) he was a big 8lb 9oz and a shocking 21.5 inches long- too long to ever wear newborn clothes even though he is so long that his legs and waist are too slim for newborn still now. and the best part was- even as big as he was i didnt tear at all- so even right after he was born i felt great. i told zach if it was going to be like Rowan i could have 10 more kids- he told me no way to that many :)

So much to say, so little time...

Its been a while... Christmas was wonderful. Sawyer was so much fun and absolutly loved the idea of Santa, and loved it even more when Santa came to our house- and nana's house and granny's house.... needless to say, the boy is spoiled. In fact, he got tired of opening presents because he just wanted to play with the things he had opened already. We 100% soaked up our last christmas as a family of three. Its crazy to think that next Christmas we will be a family of FOUR and we will have an almost 1 year old at home as well as our big almost 3 year old!

I am 39 weeks now. I have still been feeling great- I think I am actually more comfortable these past few weeks- I think knowing the end is near is making me a big nostolgic and I have REALLY been cherishing the big baby bumps and wiggles because I know this time how much I will miss that feeling. I had a good Dr. appointment today. Baby is doing great, right on track. I am 2cm dilated which is more progress than I ever made before I went into labor with Sawyer so Im pretty happy about that. Dr. W thinks that Ill go pretty quick again since thats how it went with Sawyer. For now we are just waiting to see if he decides to come this week. I have had an increase in contractions for the last week also- hoping that soonthey will turn into something :)

Whats up?

Lots is up. And we have been BUSY. Actually I think busy would be an understatment lately. I have been working extra- turns out I work so little that if I didnt pick up some extra hours I wouldn't qualify for my FMLA leave by about 50 hours- you have to work 1250 hours in a year. And since I was SO close to being there, and considering is a large chunk of (pretty much free) change, I picked up an extra shift pretty much every week for the last month. I should be good to go now, and since one extra shift puts me at full time- the nice part was- my paychecks have been AWESOME. So really, it turned out to be a good thing because I did a LOT of Christmas shopping, because work has been stressful, and stress makes me go shopping. All of my boys are getting spoiled this year :) We had Thanksgiving tonight with my family and tomorrow with Zach's family. I LOVE the holidays!

I have also been trying to get things ready for baby to arrive- organizing Sawyer's room back into a nursery, going through all of his old clothes, ect, AND we have Sawyer's big boy room partially decorated. It really has been hard to find the time to get everything done because when I haven't been at work or out playdating with friends, I have been taking naps with Sawyer. I bought him room darkening curtains for his room to help him nap and oh boy do they ever work- on both of us. I lay down to read him one book and the next thing I know, its 2 hours later and I'm waking up in his bed with him snuggled up next to me. And he is so warm and sweet its hard to leave! Sawyer has been sleeping in his big boy bed now for a while and he does great. He goes to sleep on his own every night after we read. I thought he might wake up at night and get out of bed but he hasn't yet. I think he actually has been sleeping and napping better in his big boy bed which is wonderful because there was no way I was going to have 2 kids in cribs.

Sawyer is a regular chatterbox now days- stringing together 3, 4, 5 and sometimes tons of words together into sentences. And he talks about everything- he must get that from me. I dont think there is a word he can't say- or at least attempt to say. He does have a hard time with his own name though- those darn S's are hard! We have still been trying to play outside as much as possible before it gets too cold. I already am dreaming of spring...

And baby boy #2 is doing well, growing like a weed! I can't believe that I am in my 3rd trimester already. I will be 32 weeks on Tuesday and I feel like this whole pregnancy is flying by. I still feel like we just found out we were going to have another baby, and that we JUST found out that we get to have another little boy. It makes me a little sad because I know I will miss being pregnant- I feel like I am no where near ready to be done yet and I only have 8 weeks left! Maybe Im crazy, but I really love the feeling of being pregnant, and all the little baby wiggles! This baby definatly feels bigger than I remember Sawyer feeling at 32 weeks. And my belly is bigger. He seems like a very sweet baby though- which could be wishful thinking on my part. Sawyer was always a kicker, sometimes I felt like I had bruises on my uterus from him, and once I SWEAR he pinched me in there. This baby dosent kick nearly as hard and ussually he just wiggles and readjusts his position a lot. I have had a lot of braxton hicks contractions and I'm hoping that means they are getting things geared up baby's arrival- unfourtunaly they didnt do much when I was pregnant with Sawyer but heres to hoping that the second time my body wants to move things along a bit before hand. I would love to have less than 26 hours of labor this time.

A very busy weekend

To say we have had a busy weekend would be a bit of an understatment this week. Thursday night we had rehersal dinner for Bryan and Kelsi's wedding. We went through everything twice and the first time Sawyer went down the isle no big deal, but the second time he would NOT do it and screamed NOOOOOOOOOOO- needless to say I was a BIT nervous for Friday night after that little show.

Thursday one of my good friends from work had a baby- so I snuck over Friday morning before the wedding to see them. She had a baby BOY! and has a son about 7 months older than Sawyer. Sawyer thinks her older son B is quite cool, so Im pretty excited for our next set of sons to grow up playing together too! And I LOVE getting to hold new babies :)

Friday was the wedding and I made good and sure that Sawyer took a good nap that afternoon. In fact, I had to wake him up to get him dressed and to the church on time for pictures. He behaved very well at the church for pictures and I kept givinig him snacks so he wouldnt get hungry and cranky. Zach was the best man in the wedding so when the time came Zach was the one who walked down the isle right before Sawyer was supposed to go- so Zach showed Sawyer a dum dum sucker, stuffed it is his pocket and told Sawyer, come get the candy, and went down. Sawyer was THRILLED to be able to go get a sucker, so down he went, giggling the whole way and he go his dum dum. He did GREAT and mommy was so proud!! He was a bit squirrly during dinner at the reception, it was about his bedtime and he didnt want to sit still- plus he wanted his daddy! But oh boy, once they started playing music for the dance he was a happy camper! He danced the ENTIRE night! I didnt take him home until 11:30 because he was having such a good time.

I couldnt for the life of me get this to turn the right way...

Saturday we did post wedding brunch and then spent the afternoon with some friends from out of town who stayed with us after the wedding. They have a baby girl who was born in August and Sawyer was not pleased when Zach or I held her. He would say "no daddy, baby down! Baby DOWN!" A few weeks ago he could have not cared less when I held her... looks like we might have our hands full in a few months. Sawyer was so tired from staying up late the night before that he ended up sleeping for 4 HOURS on saturday.

Today we all slept in and then went on a "farm crawl." 7 or 8 farms in southern Iowa had activities/demonstrations ect today. We went to 4 of them. Sawyer loved the animals and activities and ran all over the place happily. We went to a pumpking patch and poor Sawyer was horrified by one of the decorations they had up- to the point where he almost cried when I went near it. Then an older boy went over and punched it a bunch of times and Sawyer was quite happy again, but still wouldnt go near it. We ended on an orchard where Sawyer got to go on a "tractor ride" and he picked and apple off one of the trees. We ate almost all of it before falling asleep in the car. Zach and I had fun too- Zach bought some local organic honey, and he loves honey. He got me some organic garlic, and I love garlic. There was also really great food, the orchard had amazing fresh apples and caramel. I was one happy pregnant lady :) We also got 1/2 a bushell of fresh apples to take home for juice/cider. It was such a fun day. We ended the night by spending some more time with Zach's parents, and Sawyer was so happy to see them again.

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Getting ready

Checking out his new log cabin for the first time

Oh, I like it!

Maybe even love it! Zach agreed to letting him have a log cabin playhouse because they arent "too girly"

We have a very busy and exciting weekend ahead of us! Sawyer is one of the ring bearers and Zach the best man in two of our best friends wedding tomorrow night! I was at work the day that Sawyer's tux came in so Zach tried it on him and took a video of him for me to see when I got home. As you can tell, he likes it :)

He danced so much when they put him in the tux that right after zach took it off and put his jammies on him- he ended up throwing up. I guess he shouldnt dance right after he eats. Thank goodness he didnt throw up on his tux!

I had him practice holding the pillow and walking yesterday, just around the house, and he was VERY proud, and excited and, well, CRAZY as usual. I can't decide if he is going to freak out, or if he will ham it up- I think it will just depend on his mood Friday night.

We have been so busy as usual but with nothing specific. Lots of playdates to the park while the weather is so nice. And we have been working on clearing everything out of our upstairs office so it can become Sawyer's big boy room. Its been a slow process for me- I ussually only work on it when Sawyer is napping- IF the rest of the house is already clean. I have his bedding ect. all ready to go, we just need to pick out a bed, repaint the room, get all the office stuff out.... I think it will be a while yet. Its going to have to get cold out to get me more motivated to work on anything inside the house.